Last night over drinks one of Melody’s co-workers remarked “Your
daughter is amazing.” I replied, “She’s got an amazing mother.” I knew
in saying that there was a conflict of interest. It was the charming
thing to say, after all, and it’s good press. I uttered it in
half-truth. But as soon as I said it, to my surprise, my eyes misted
over. I choked back a tear. I realized it really was true. She is
amazing. She isn’t perfect, but she’s perfect for our family. She’s both
a che
erleader and a disciplinarian to
our child (she dotes, but she will not be played). She’s impeccably
organized, a master of itineraries. By the time you think of it, she has
handled it. She gave fierce competition this year for Wittiest Leong
(see: Insta captions). She is incredibly driven in her career, she gives
until there is nothing left to give. She continually shows me my sin,
and is quick to forgive. A beautiful woman, inside and out (see: photo).
Marriage isn’t just a partnership, it’s a grafting. It is by her
willingness to walk alongside me that she is making me a better man.
Happy 30th Birthday to the Love of My Life, the Delight of My Eyes, my
dear Melody!
